Results don’t lie….

Results don’t Lie…

What can we say about our South African cricket side, the Proteas, after their recent defeat in the quarter final clash against the New Zealand Black Caps?  

Are they Chokers, as many people are accusing them to be?

 Here are some of my thoughts on the topic…

 In sport, as in any area of our lives, we can have all the I’s dotted and T’s crossed (we can look good on the outside) but when the pressure is on, the REAL you is what comes out – and that person might not be as ‘dotted’ or ‘crossed’ as everyone would like them to be.

What went wrong for the Proteas?

On the “outside”, everything looked good – the build up was successful, the preparation was done- and yet, when the time to stay composed and produce the goods came along, the inability to do so was glaringly obvious to all.

Was it their coach’s fault, or their captain’s? Were they just having “one of those days”?  After all what are the chances that Amla would be dismissed in such a freakish manner?!

 I believe that when a player loses his cool (and at the same time his wickets), it says something about the internal psyche of that player and his supporting team.

 When a boxer takes a blow and is unsteady he buys time. 

He either holds the opponent or skips around out of harm’s way to recover his composure.

When a rugby team has conceded a few quick points, they slow the game down through fake injuries, collapsed scrums and slow walks to the line outs … which all serve as adequate disruptions to the oppositions flow, giving them time to plan a new strategy of attack!

 The Proteas, with plenty of time and wickets in hand, simply needed to bide their time and follow the plan to systematically annihilate the Black Caps. 

But I believe that there was a tiny little word that stood between them and victory.

It is the word that most often causes teams to become divided, great armies to be scattered and organisations to ultimately go belly up!

 That word?

EGO.

 When what I want to do becomes more important than what the Team requires of me ,then EGO has won the day!

 I believe that the Proteas can and will be World Champions in the future, but they need to rule their own hearts before they can rule the cricket world.

If they ever want to step into greatness, they must seek to make each of their fellow team members look better than themselves.  I believe that when they do this, our SA team will be unstoppable.

John Maxwell reminds us that ‘teamwork makes the dream work’.

Proteas, it’s time to set aside your individual agendas and discover the power of unity!

Sean Willard

Speaker, Coach & Author

www.smswillard.com

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Do it Afraid!

Just do it … anyway!

 Very often we are held back from taking action in our lives by our fears, our false expectations or by what ‘may’ happen if we launch out and do something new, different, risky, uncharacteristic and potentially life-changing.

My encouragement to you today: do it anyway!

 What have you always wanted to do but have shrunk away from doing so as to live ‘safely’, fearing what people may think or say about you or do to you should you take the plunge into different life ventures? Who are you living to impress and please? Why are you doing this if it is killing the very ‘you’ that was born to grow, develop and be shown to the world?

 It’s time to “grow up and grow out”!

 Listen to Mother Teresa’s thoughts on trying to live up to everyone else’s expectations:

 ”People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; Forgive them anyway.

 If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway.

 If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.

 What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway.

 The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.

 Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

 You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; It never was between you and them anyway.”

 It is time to let go of public opinion and to express ‘you’ anyway!

It’s time to become YOU-IER!

Sean Willard

Speaker, Intuitive Coach & Author

www.smswillard.com

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“The Tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it!” Unknown

 

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What do you see……

Can I ask you to walk up to the window of your life today and have a good look out of it? 

As you approach the glass, what do you see?

Is it a good view?  Is it panoramic?  Are you pleased with what your eye falls on – your relationships, dreams, successes, growth-inducing failures and your life prospects?

Or is the glass perhaps tainted and smudged with people, places and events from your past that provide you with a very sad outlook? 

Do you live with the nagging feeling that your life permanently looks out onto street level – at the comings and goings of people you envy in life.

Perhaps you feel that you are a few stories up, but the window is still too small for your liking.

Perhaps you have stopped looking out the window entirely so as not to experience any disappointment…

Now, what don’t you see through the window?  What is not there?  What would you like to add to your view?

Today we are going on a daring adventure.  Would you like to join?  We are going to hop into the elevator and take a ride to the Penthouse Suite to sneak a peak at the view of your life’s possibilities. 

How are you feeling on the journey up?  Unworthy; fearful; like an imposter who does not belong?  Are you grabbing a few soap bars and courtesy mints from the entrance hall on your way because you feel that you will never truly get this opportunity to be so ‘high up’ again?

So often we keep ourselves glued to the second floor, longing for the space and magnificence of the top, but we feel cheeky to consider that it might be where we actually belong.

We blame the conditions and circumstances of our lives and forget to take 100% responsibility for where we are and who we are in life.  No one is forcing you to stay where you are…start moving!

You have to choose to look through a different window (Penthouse Suite).  You have to choose to think better of yourself. 

As Les Brown succinctly puts it, ‘You don’t have to be great to get started, but you do have to get started to be great.’

(If you think you might have trouble ‘getting started’, why not take responsibility and find a mentor or coach to help you gain much needed momentum?) 

It is time to understand who you are and whose you are and begin to believe in and appreciate the view from the Top!

 Hooah!

From the Top…

Sean Willard

Speaker, Intuitive Coach & Author

www.smswillard.com

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All by bags are packed, I’m ready to go….

Today at around 21H00 (South African time) I will be winging my way to the US of A for a two-week visit. 

It has been a dream of mine to hear one of my top mentors, Les Brown, speak live. 

I now have the opportunity to rub shoulders with both him and Paul Martinelli at a two-day Empowerment Mentoring Conference, where I have signed up, amongst other things, to attend the Speakers Workshop run by Les Brown himself as an added bonus on the 3rd day!

From there I will make my way to Dallas Texas to hear from Dr. Ben Carson (http://mannafest.mannatech.com/dr-ben-carson/), Dr. Bill McAnally and other top speakers at Mannatechs annual conference, Mannafest.  I am especially keen to hear more about how we can support the Give For Real cause that is helping fight malnutrition amongst children.

I believe that BIG doors will be opened and lifelong friendships forged over this time.

Naturally, any gems gleaned over this time will be passed on to all interested parties via my blog or my Motivational Moments. 

Chatting soon!

Until then - Live your Purpose!

Sean Willard

Speaker, Coach & Author

www.smswillard.com

www.facebook.com/seanwillard

 

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